Wife watches bi husband

Bradford and Angela share a loving, open relationship. Image: Supplied Source:Whimn. For a small but growing number of women, seeing their man with another man is not only ok, it's also a big turn on. Bradford and Angela have been together for nearly 10 years after meeting at work.

The dilemma I am a year-old woman, married for three years, with three children under the age of four. Six weeks ago I discovered that my husband has been chatting to men online via Gaydar and other similar sites, and emailing one man in particular. When I confronted him he confessed he visited a gay sauna on four occasions while I was pregnant and started emailing a man he met there. He said he has been addicted to pornography for over a decade long before we met and this had been making him have urges he had difficultly controlling. I had an inkling he watched porn, but had no clue as to the frequency daily he was even bunking off work and watching it in public loos. He is seeking counselling, has gone cold turkey on porn and will do anything to win me back. But I have alarm bells ringing and am at a loss as to what to do, with no one to turn to.

Add to GoodReads. Just married and pregnant, she discovers that her husband has been meeting Brad for sex. Can my marriage survive? These and other stories illustrate the difficulties inherent when a wife or girlfriend finds out her man has had or wants to have sexual contact with other men.

I specifically want to watch my long-term partner with another man, but feel it may be pushing his boundaries too far. We had a threesome with one of his close friends, and he was somewhat uncomfortable about it afterwards. They did not interact together at all during this time, but I really would like to watch him do so in the future, not with someone we know, just another man. How do I approach this, and what do I do if I feel like he is not meeting me all the way with my desires, despite me meeting his?